Disclaimer

The following information contained in this Blog is the sole opinion of the writer based on her personal and professional experiences and viewpoints and IS NOT nor is it meant to represent the official opinion and/or standing of the Board of Education as an entity.

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Aye...AYE!


A Valid Point...

Looks like Mr. Green has those bloggers shook -- Again! I must say to some degree I agree with him. I’ve read the things they write about him and they are awful. I’m wondering if Bloggers who become well read (i.e. a certain % of the community becomes aware of their blog (branded if you will), they accept/solicit donations or use their blog as a marketing money generating vehicle) don’t in fact become in legal terms “public figures/entities” and as such become just as susceptible to the OPINIONS they so readily offer about others. Mr. Green is onto something here!

I believe there should be a level of “awareness” and “responsibility” [civil and legal] by which blogger’s assess the comments they receive BEFORE they decide to post them. I do believe most don’t print the blatant egregiously rude remarks, but some bloggers, who let’s just say have an obvious bias and or disdain for an individual, have and actively do post CRUDE commentary as well as comments. They also don’t print ALL the comments they get that call them on their stuff as I have sent MANY and they were not posted.

So – there is definitely a level of awareness on the parts of bloggers. The question is what is their MOTIVE? That my dear ones would be the interest of our courts!

Having had some interaction with a few of the bloggers, as well as having been directly attacked, I have “peep ’d” their hold card. I play sometimes. Sometimes they IRRITATE the crap out of me with their judgment, misinformation and reporting PURELY by hearsay (who does that?? said in today’s vernacular and inflection). Sometimes I hold back and SOMETIMES I don’t!

I have NEVER posted a blog about anyone or to ANYONE without FIRST having been the subject of their Blog, posts or comments – directly or indirectly. And…when I respond it is usually not nice. But that is how war is. When you INFER that someone is ignorant (which IS a RACIAL CHARGED word) or accuse someone of meaning this or that and write an entire posting about it, or you misquote or surmise someone must be this or that, or challenge one’s purpose, or you out and out LIE –that’s exactly what you’ve done – DECLARED WAR! And guess what -- you can’t declare war and then decide at which level your opponent should engage you.

One commenter early on told me that I ran for this position so I needed to expect to be talked about, and certainly I did anticipate that. I guess what they didn’t anticipate is that I would answer back. Somehow service in this community translates into being a doormat. There are people – specifically -- Bloggers and their commenters that feel they can say anything they want and that is that. And they can! But so too do people have the right to respond if they so choose.

I was also told, on a few occasions, to get a thick skin which I find absolutely hilarious because you can’t be in service to the public without having a tough skin. I am NOT without emotions or feelings. AND I will NOT stuff them because the public is uncomfortable with my responses. I am consistently passionate, specific in my speech and writing and comfortable with speaking my peace/piece and I’m not going to edit it for the convenience of others who don’t even speak to me in public but write about me on a regular basis. Did you think I had not noticed your practice of avoiding eye contact so as to pretend you didn’t see me? I see you!

On a final note – I surmise we get disappointed in elected officials once elected because we DON’T allow them to be WHO THEY REALLY ARE! Or WORSE we don't believe what we SEE when they SHOW US who they are! We tell them what we want and then they morph into that very thing for the sake of our vote. The problem is you cannot maintain a farce. I much rather vote for someone WHO is REAL not wavering and molding themselves to fit the MOST VOTES or the POPULAR opinions of the day.

Eventually everyone reverts back to their TRUE self. I live in my TRUE self daily! I’m not perfect but I’m in pursuit of it! Love me or leave me be!

Mr. Green – I tip my HAT to ya!

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

A Modern Day Dr. King


What would Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. say today to the residents of Plainfield?


I would imagine that central to his talk would be the admonishment that this isn’t about one day of remembrance and throwing up quotes, quips and unqualified anecdotes.

To relegate his purpose and impact to such trivialities is absolutely offensive.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. EMBODIED the principles he talked about! He LIVED it! He literally WALKED his TALK!

How dare we dishonor him with our pretense and phony useless concern! How DARE WE!

Perhaps Plainfield Youth are where they are because the adults they encounter at home, in school, on the streets, in our local businesses and all around this Queen City – example this entitled, it’s all about me attitude that has taken over the consciousness of today’s youth.

And, “I ain’t mad at them!”

I see it every day. I read it every day. I hear it every day. We are a haughty, self-centered, lazy generation and the Apples are not falling far from the tree!

So whether you’ve birthed them, miss educated them, taunted them, talked down to them or just plain old ignored them –WE HAVE created them!

.....We are the Cause...

So -- we might as well be the Change, the Hope and the Answer to the condition of our Youth!

Monday, January 17, 2011

Peace Major For Justice


They are watching us…


What are WE showing them?

Are WE teaching them the Art of Diplomacy?

...The Heart of Humanity?

...The language of Integrity?

Are WE speaking words of encouragement?

...Of empowerment?

...Wise Counsel for their youthful development?

They are watching us…

What are YOU showing them?

Are YOU sharing your lessons of humility?

...The sins of your vanity?

...The value of Social and Community Responsibility?

What we see is what we beget…the reflection of these children are the mirrored images of the ADULT set.

...Don’t forget – they are WATCHING US!

If we don’t -- then who will------------Help…

...Fulfill theirs dreams?

...Still their screams?

...Instill hope?

...Teach them how to cope without dope…or…. Drink……or Smoke?

What are WE showing them?

Let us all commit to showing the children of Plainfield what
“I Love You” looks like..........because..........
they are WATCHING Us!


Copyright © 2010-2011

All Rights Reserved